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Keri Enriquez

Keri Enriquez

Online Therapy

Holistic Alternative Psychology Practitioner

California, Colorado, Florida, and 7 more...

About Keri
I’m Keri, a holistic practitioner dedicated to supporting your journey toward balance, wellness, and a deeper connection with yourself. Whether you're navigating stress, chronic discomfort, emotional blocks, or simply seeking a more grounded and aligned life, I’m here to help you heal from the inside out. My approach combines mind, body, and spirit—offering personalized care that honors your unique story. Through [modalities you offer—e.g., Reiki, herbal medicine, intuitive guidance, bodywork], I hold a space where transformation can gently unfold. If you're ready to feel more empowered, centered, and vibrant, I invite you to explore how we can work together. Your healing begins here.
How does couples therapy work and how can it help?
Couples therapy is a supportive space where both partners can be heard, understood, and guided through the challenges in their relationship. It’s not about assigning blame or deciding who’s “right”—it’s about understanding your dynamic, improving communication, and building a healthier, more connected partnership. In our sessions, we’ll explore what’s working, what’s not, and where each of you feels stuck, unseen, or misunderstood. You’ll learn tools to communicate more openly, manage conflict more constructively, and reconnect emotionally and physically. Some couples come to therapy in crisis, while others come to deepen their bond or strengthen their foundation. Whether you're dealing with recurring arguments, life transitions, trust issues, or just feeling distant, therapy can help you: Understand and shift patterns that keep you stuck Express needs and emotions more clearly Rebuild trust and intimacy Make intentional choices about your future together As your therapist, I hold space for both of you—without taking sides—while helping you move toward greater clarity, connection, and compassion.
How do you work with clients with anxiety?
When it comes to anxiety, I understand how overwhelming and isolating it can feel. My approach to working with anxiety is rooted in compassion, patience, and a deep understanding of how anxiety impacts not just the mind but also the body and spirit. Together, we’ll explore the roots of your anxiety—whether it’s triggered by specific events, past experiences, or patterns in your thoughts and behaviors. We’ll work to understand the unique ways your body responds to stress and how you can learn to navigate these responses with more ease and self-compassion. Here’s how we can approach anxiety together: Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: We’ll use mindfulness practices, breathwork, and grounding exercises to help you stay present and calm when anxiety arises. These tools help create a sense of control and safety in moments of overwhelm. Cognitive and Emotional Exploration: We’ll gently explore your thought patterns and how they fuel anxiety. By identifying negative or unhelpful beliefs, we can reframe and shift the way you perceive situations, helping reduce stress and worry. Somatic Awareness: Anxiety often lives in the body. We may explore how physical tension, breath patterns, or nervous system responses are tied to your anxiety, and work together to help your body feel more relaxed and balanced. Building Coping Strategies: You’ll gain practical tools for managing anxiety in everyday situations—whether it’s dealing with work stress, social anxiety, or fear of the future. We’ll also focus on building resilience so you can face life’s challenges with more confidence. Holistic Support: Depending on your needs, I may integrate other holistic practices (like energy work, meditation, or nature-based healing) to address the mind-body connection and help you find a deeper sense of peace. Healing anxiety is not about eliminating all stress, but about finding balance and learning to navigate life with greater ease and presence. My goal is to help you reconnect with your inner calm, regain control over your thoughts, and trust in your ability to handle what comes your way. You don’t have to face anxiety alone—I’m here to support you through every step of the journey.
Why did you become a therapist, and what motivates you to continue?
I became a therapist because I’ve always been drawn to the deeper layers of human experience—the “why” behind our patterns, the unspoken pain we carry, and the quiet strength that emerges when we’re truly supported. I believe that healing is possible when we feel safe, seen, and understood. I wanted to be someone who could offer that space. What continues to motivate me is witnessing transformation—not always dramatic, but often subtle and deeply meaningful. It’s in the moment someone speaks a truth they’ve never said out loud… when a long-held weight starts to lift… or when a client begins to trust themselves again. This work is sacred to me. I’m constantly inspired by the courage of the people I work with, and I’m humbled to walk beside them on their journey. Every session is a reminder that healing isn’t linear, but it is possible—and that connection and compassion truly can change lives.
How do you work with clients with depression?
Depression can feel heavy, isolating, and overwhelming. It can make everyday tasks seem insurmountable and leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and the world around you. If you’re struggling with depression, know that you don’t have to carry it alone, and healing is possible. When we work together, I approach depression with a holistic lens, understanding that it’s not just about the mind but also the body, emotions, and energy. I take time to listen deeply to your experiences and work with you to gently explore the underlying factors contributing to your depression. Here’s how we can work through it together: Building Emotional Awareness: Depression often comes with a sense of numbness or disconnection. Through our work, we’ll start by reconnecting you with your emotions and uncovering the underlying feelings that may be buried or unexpressed. Mind-Body Connection: Depression isn’t just in your mind—it affects your body too. We’ll explore the ways your body holds tension, fatigue, and other physical symptoms of depression. Techniques like somatic awareness, breathwork, and grounding exercises can help ease this physical burden and create more space for emotional healing. Changing Negative Thought Patterns: Depression often involves negative, self-critical thinking that can feel hard to escape. We’ll work to gently identify and challenge these patterns, replacing them with more compassionate and realistic perspectives. Practical Tools for Coping: Depression can make it hard to find the motivation or energy to get through the day. Together, we’ll develop small, manageable steps that honor where you’re at while encouraging progress. We’ll also work on improving your sleep, nutrition, and daily routines—things that can make a big difference in lifting your mood. Cultivating Meaning and Purpose: Depression can leave you feeling disconnected from your sense of purpose or joy. Through our sessions, we’ll explore what matters most to you and how to reconnect with the things that bring meaning to your life, even in small, everyday ways. Holistic Practices: I may incorporate other healing tools, such as energy work, meditation, or mindfulness practices, to support your emotional and mental well-being on a deeper level. Sometimes, these practices can help shift stagnant energy and create a sense of calm and renewal. Healing from depression takes time, and there may be ups and downs along the way—but every step you take towards healing is important. My role is to walk with you through that journey, offering support, understanding, and practical tools to help you feel more grounded and hopeful. You don’t have to do this alone—I’m here to support you in every step of the process.
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
You don’t have to be in crisis to seek support. You don’t have to have everything figured out before you start. Therapy isn’t about being “broken” or needing to be “fixed”—it’s about giving yourself permission to be seen, heard, and supported in a safe space. It’s okay to feel nervous or unsure. Many people do. Therapy can feel vulnerable because it asks you to show up as you are—but that’s also where real healing begins. You don’t have to do it alone, and you don’t have to know what to say. A good therapist will meet you where you are, without judgment or pressure. It’s not about changing who you are—it’s about understanding yourself more deeply, finding healthier ways to cope, and creating space for growth. Therapy is an act of courage, self-respect, and care. You deserve that.
What should people thinking about working with you, know about you?
If you're considering working with me, I want you to know that I’m here to support you with compassion, understanding, and a deep respect for your unique journey. I believe in creating a safe, non-judgmental space where you can be your authentic self and begin the healing process at your own pace. Here’s a little bit more about me and how I approach our work together: I Believe in the Power of Connection: I see therapy and holistic care as a partnership. My role is to listen, guide, and offer tools, but the work we do together is built on the trust and connection we create. I’m here to walk alongside you, not to direct you. Your insights and experiences are vital in our work together. I’m Holistic in My Approach: While I’m trained in therapeutic techniques, I also integrate holistic practices to support your healing on multiple levels—mind, body, and spirit. Whether it’s mindfulness, energy work, or body-based practices, I believe in addressing the whole person. Your mental, emotional, and physical well-being are all interconnected, and I aim to bring balance to each. I’m Compassionate and Non-Judgmental: I deeply believe that every person’s story is worth hearing, and there is no “right” or “wrong” way to heal. I create a space where you can be vulnerable without fear of judgment. We all carry struggles, and my goal is to meet you where you are, without pressure or expectation. I Respect Your Pace and Your Choices: Healing is not a race, and everyone’s journey looks different. I work at a pace that feels right for you, whether that’s moving quickly through challenges or taking it slow to fully process. You have control over your healing, and I’ll be there to support you every step of the way. I Am Passionate About Empowerment: My mission is not to “fix” you, but to help you reconnect with your inner strength and wisdom. I want you to feel empowered, capable, and confident in your ability to navigate life’s challenges. My work is about helping you build resilience, uncover your true potential, and embrace your journey toward growth. I’m a Lifelong Learner: I’m continually learning and growing in my practice to offer you the best possible care. Whether it’s through additional training, workshops, or personal growth, I’m committed to expanding my knowledge and integrating new approaches that align with your needs. I Value Transparency and Communication: I believe that open communication is key to a successful therapeutic relationship. If something isn’t working, or if you have any concerns, I encourage you to bring them up so we can discuss and adjust as needed. Your comfort and progress are always my priority. I Understand the Healing Process Takes Time: Whether you’re dealing with trauma, stress, anxiety, or any other challenge, healing is not instantaneous. It’s a journey, and I’m here for the long haul. We’ll celebrate every step forward, no matter how small it may seem. If you choose to work with me, you can expect a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where we work together toward healing and growth. I’m honored to be part of your journey and excited to walk alongside you as you move toward greater clarity, peace, and empowerment.
Why is trauma processing important?
Trauma processing is an essential part of healing because unprocessed trauma can linger in the body, mind, and emotions, affecting our overall well-being, relationships, and even our physical health. When trauma is not fully addressed, it can create lasting impacts that shape how we think, feel, and respond to the world around us. Here’s why it’s so important to process trauma: Releasing Emotional Burdens: Unprocessed trauma often leads to emotional numbness, anger, fear, sadness, or shame. Processing trauma allows us to express and release these heavy emotions, helping us restore a sense of emotional balance and relief. Breaking the Cycle of Re-traumatization: When trauma is not addressed, it can lead to re-enacting patterns or triggers in our lives that keep us stuck in past pain. By processing trauma, we can begin to break these harmful cycles, allowing ourselves to respond to life’s challenges in healthier ways. Restoring a Sense of Safety: Trauma often disrupts our sense of safety, both internally and externally. Processing trauma helps us rebuild trust in ourselves and in others, and it restores our ability to feel safe in the present moment. Healing the Body: Trauma isn’t just a mental experience—it affects our bodies as well. It can create tension, pain, and stress responses in the nervous system. By processing trauma, we can help release physical tension and ease the body’s reaction to past events, reducing symptoms like chronic pain, anxiety, and sleep disturbances. Improving Mental Health: Left unprocessed, trauma can contribute to mental health struggles such as anxiety, depression, and PTSD. Processing trauma can help reduce the intensity of these symptoms, improving your overall emotional and mental well-being. Restoring Agency and Control: Trauma can leave us feeling powerless or disconnected from our own sense of control. Processing trauma helps us reclaim that sense of agency, allowing us to make empowered choices in our lives and feel more in control of our future. Enhancing Relationships: Trauma affects how we relate to others. By processing trauma, we can heal from past relational wounds, reduce trust issues, and build stronger, more connected relationships. It opens the door to better communication and healthier ways of engaging with the people in our lives. Living More Fully: Trauma can hold us back from fully living in the present or embracing new experiences. By working through trauma, we free ourselves from the constraints of the past and open up to new possibilities, growth, and joy in life. In short, trauma processing is important because it helps us heal, rebuild, and reclaim our lives. It’s not about erasing the past—it’s about integrating those experiences in a way that allows us to move forward with greater strength, clarity, and peace.
How do you work with clients with trauma and PTSD?
Trauma and PTSD can be deeply affecting, impacting not just your mental health, but also your body, relationships, and overall sense of safety in the world. If you're living with the effects of trauma, it can feel isolating and overwhelming, but please know that healing is possible. You are not alone, and together we can work toward reclaiming your sense of peace, safety, and empowerment. My approach to trauma healing is holistic, gentle, and client-centered. We’ll work at your pace to ensure that you feel safe and supported as we explore the impact of trauma in your life. The process may take time, but each step is a step toward healing and reclaiming your life. Here’s how we can work together on your healing journey: Creating Safety and Trust: One of the first priorities is creating a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space for you. Trauma often disrupts our sense of safety, so I make sure that every session is built on trust and respect for your experience, ensuring you feel in control of your healing process. Somatic and Body-Based Approaches: Trauma lives in the body, and its effects are often felt physically—tension, numbness, hypervigilance, or exhaustion. I use somatic therapy techniques, breathwork, and body-awareness practices to help you reconnect with your body in a gentle and healing way, releasing the stored tension and emotional energy that trauma leaves behind. Processing and Integrating the Trauma: We’ll explore the trauma at a pace that feels right for you, helping you to process and make sense of your experiences in a safe environment. I use trauma-informed methods that honor your experience and avoid re-traumatization. Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: Trauma can cause a sense of being disconnected from the present moment. I’ll teach you grounding exercises, mindfulness, and relaxation techniques to help you stay centered and calm, especially when flashbacks or anxiety arise. These tools can help you feel more grounded in your body and in the present. Cognitive and Emotional Processing: We’ll work to identify and gently challenge any negative thought patterns or limiting beliefs that arose from your trauma. Together, we’ll develop healthier ways of thinking and coping, helping you to shift the impact of trauma on your mental and emotional well-being. Safety in Relationships: Trauma can affect how we relate to others, creating feelings of distrust, isolation, or fear. In our work, we’ll explore how your relationships may have been impacted and how to rebuild healthier, more supportive connections with others. Building Resilience: Healing from trauma is not about “forgetting” but about building resilience, reclaiming your sense of agency, and integrating your experiences into your story in a way that empowers you. We’ll work on strengthening your inner resources, self-compassion, and coping skills so you can move forward with confidence. Healing from trauma is a journey, and you don’t have to walk it alone. I’m here to guide and support you with patience, understanding, and care as you move toward a life that feels more whole, safe, and grounded.
How do you work with clients with grief?
Grief can feel like an overwhelming, uncharted journey. Whether you're grieving the loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or a significant life change, it’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions—sadness, anger, guilt, confusion, or even numbness. It can leave you feeling lost and uncertain of how to move forward. If you’re navigating grief, I want you to know that you don’t have to go through it alone. My approach to grief support is gentle, empathetic, and deeply respectful of the unique process you’re going through. There’s no timeline for grief, and no “right” way to experience it. Together, we’ll create a space where you can honor your emotions, find meaning in your experience, and begin the healing process. Here’s how I work with clients experiencing grief: Providing a Safe and Compassionate Space: Grief can bring up raw emotions, and I make sure our work together is a safe, non-judgmental space where you can feel heard and understood. You can express your feelings without fear of judgment or the pressure to "move on" too quickly. Grief is deeply personal, and I respect where you are on your journey. Acknowledging the Full Range of Emotions: Grief is not just sadness; it’s a complex mix of emotions that can shift from one moment to the next. I’m here to help you explore and process all of the feelings that arise, whether they’re anger, guilt, relief, or even moments of joy and peace amidst the pain. Every emotion is valid and part of your healing process. Helping You Honor Your Loss: Grief often requires us to process the significance of the loss and find ways to honor what was. We may work together to reflect on your memories, rituals, or ways to celebrate the life of your loved one. This can be an important step in finding closure or making peace with the loss. Working at Your Pace: There’s no rush when it comes to grief. Everyone’s journey is different, and I’ll meet you where you are. If you’re ready to explore certain aspects of your grief, we can dive in. If you need space to simply sit with your emotions and let them unfold, I’ll honor that too. Your healing process is unique, and I’m here to support it at your pace. Supporting You Through the Practical and Emotional Impact: Grief often impacts many areas of life, from day-to-day functioning to how we view ourselves and our relationships. Together, we’ll explore how grief is affecting you in the present moment and work on practical strategies to manage daily life while processing your emotions. Exploring Meaning and Healing: In the midst of grief, it can be difficult to find meaning or purpose. I support clients in exploring how they can integrate the experience of loss into their life moving forward, whether through reconnecting with their values, finding new meaning, or creating a legacy for their loved one. Gentle Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: Sometimes grief can feel overwhelming, and mindfulness or grounding techniques can help you stay present and manage intense emotions. We’ll work together to find tools that help you navigate the emotional waves of grief, offering you moments of peace and balance. Navigating Loneliness and Isolation: Grief can often make us feel alone, even in a crowd. I’ll help you explore the isolation that comes with grief and support you in finding healthy ways to reconnect with yourself and others, when you’re ready. Helping You Move Forward: While we never “move on” from grief, we do learn how to integrate it into our lives. I’ll help you explore how to carry the love, lessons, and memories of your loss in a way that allows you to keep moving forward, creating a new sense of balance and meaning in your life. Grief is a deeply personal experience, and there is no right or wrong way to navigate it. My role is to support you through every phase of the process, whether you’re feeling lost in your sorrow or ready to begin exploring the next chapter of your healing. You don’t have to face it alone, and I’m here to help you find the support, understanding, and peace you need.
What do therapy sessions with you look like?
Therapy with me is a collaborative, compassionate, and personalized experience. I provide a safe and grounded space where you can slow down, be yourself, and explore what’s really going on beneath the surface—at your own pace. Our sessions may include talking through life challenges, exploring emotional patterns, and reconnecting with your body and inner wisdom. Depending on your needs and preferences, I may also integrate holistic tools such as breathwork, mindfulness, somatic awareness, or energy-based practices to support your healing on multiple levels—mind, body, and spirit. You don’t need to have the “right words” or a clear goal to begin. Whether you're navigating anxiety, burnout, grief, or simply feeling stuck, we’ll work together to understand what you need and how to move forward in a way that feels right for you. This is your space. I’m here to walk alongside you with empathy, curiosity, and care.
How does mindfulness-based therapy (MBCT) work and how can it help?
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) is an integrative approach that combines the principles of mindfulness meditation with cognitive therapy techniques. MBCT is designed to help people break free from patterns of negative thinking, emotional reactivity, and stress, and to foster a greater sense of awareness, acceptance, and emotional regulation. MBCT is especially effective for individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, stress, or recurring negative thought patterns. The focus is on cultivating mindfulness, or the ability to be present in the moment, without judgment, while also developing tools to manage difficult emotions and thoughts. Here’s how MBCT works and how it can help: 1. Cultivating Mindfulness Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to your present experience—thoughts, feelings, body sensations, and environment—without judgment. In MBCT, mindfulness techniques, such as focused breathing, body scans, and meditation, are used to help you cultivate awareness in the here-and-now. These practices can help you distance yourself from the automatic negative thinking patterns that often lead to emotional distress. By learning to observe your thoughts and feelings without getting caught up in them, you begin to see them as temporary experiences rather than facts. This helps reduce the power of negative thinking that can contribute to anxiety or depression. 2. Identifying and Challenging Negative Thought Patterns In MBCT, we explore how habitual patterns of thinking—like rumination or catastrophizing—contribute to emotional distress. For example, when someone with depression experiences negative thoughts, they may get stuck in a loop, continually thinking that "nothing will ever get better." MBCT helps you recognize these automatic thought patterns and offers tools to challenge them. By combining mindfulness with cognitive therapy techniques, MBCT teaches you how to: Notice when you're getting stuck in negative thought patterns Create space between you and your thoughts Reframe these thoughts in a more realistic, compassionate way The goal is to break the cycle of negative thinking and develop healthier ways of interpreting your experiences. 3. Increasing Emotional Awareness and Regulation Many of us are unaware of our emotional responses until they’ve already taken hold, leading to reactive behaviors like lashing out or withdrawing. MBCT helps increase emotional awareness, which allows you to pause and observe your emotional reactions before you act on them. This space provides an opportunity to make more thoughtful, intentional choices rather than being swept away by strong emotions. The practice of mindfulness allows you to stay present with difficult emotions, such as sadness, anger, or fear, without judgment. Over time, you’ll build resilience and learn that you don’t have to be overwhelmed by emotions—they can be observed, processed, and released. 4. Reducing Stress and Improving Coping Skills Chronic stress is often tied to persistent worry, anxiety, and negative thinking. MBCT helps you develop better coping skills by teaching you how to approach stress in a mindful, balanced way. Instead of avoiding stressors or reacting impulsively, you’ll learn to face them with a calm, present mindset. Mindfulness also reduces the body’s physical stress response, helping you manage symptoms like tension, fatigue, or poor sleep. This allows you to approach life’s challenges with greater clarity and calm. 5. Preventing Relapse in Depression and Anxiety One of the most powerful benefits of MBCT is its ability to prevent relapse in people who have experienced recurrent episodes of depression or anxiety. MBCT teaches you how to notice early warning signs—such as negative thinking patterns or shifts in mood—before they escalate into a full-blown episode. By becoming more aware of your mental and emotional state, you can intervene earlier, using mindfulness and cognitive strategies to stop the cycle before it becomes overwhelming. This prevention approach is especially effective for individuals who have experienced multiple episodes of depression or anxiety. 6. Fostering Acceptance and Self-Compassion Mindfulness teaches acceptance—not resignation or passivity, but the ability to acknowledge your current experience without judgment or resistance. Often, we are our harshest critics, and this self-criticism can worsen feelings of inadequacy or frustration. Through MBCT, you’ll cultivate self-compassion, which allows you to treat yourself with kindness and understanding when things go wrong. Instead of reacting with frustration or self-blame, you’ll learn to be gentle with yourself and accept your human imperfections. 7. Improving Overall Well-Being MBCT has been shown to improve mental well-being by increasing present-moment awareness, emotional regulation, and resilience. With time and practice, you’ll experience greater peace, clarity, and balance in your daily life. This shift can lead to improved relationships, enhanced creativity, and an increased sense of meaning and fulfillment. How MBCT Can Help: Reduce Symptoms of Depression and Anxiety: By breaking the cycle of negative thinking, MBCT can alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety and reduce the likelihood of relapse. Improve Emotional Regulation: Mindfulness practices help you stay present with emotions without becoming overwhelmed, leading to greater emotional resilience and regulation. Increase Self-Awareness: MBCT increases your ability to recognize and understand your thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations, promoting greater insight and self-compassion. Enhance Stress Management: By reducing the physiological stress response and cultivating mindfulness, you can manage stress more effectively and prevent it from negatively impacting your life. Develop Healthier Thought Patterns: MBCT helps you identify and challenge negative thought patterns, leading to healthier, more balanced thinking and improved self-esteem. Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy is a powerful tool for anyone looking to break free from the grip of negative thoughts, emotional reactivity, and stress. Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, or simply seeking to improve your mental health and well-being, MBCT offers practical tools to create lasting change in your life.
How do you work with clients with addiction?
When I work with clients who are facing addiction, my approach is rooted in compassion, not judgment. I see addiction not as a flaw or failure, but as a response to pain, disconnection, or unmet needs. It often emerges as a coping strategy—one that may no longer be serving you, but that once helped you survive. Our work together focuses on creating a safe, non-shaming space where we can gently explore the roots of your relationship with substances or behaviors. Whether you're seeking complete sobriety, harm reduction, or simply trying to understand your patterns, I’ll meet you where you are—with respect for your autonomy and your story. In sessions, we may: Identify triggers and underlying emotional pain Strengthen your ability to regulate emotions and manage stress Explore trauma, grief, or early experiences that may be connected to your addiction Develop healthier coping tools and supportive routines Rebuild your sense of self, purpose, and connection I often integrate holistic modalities—like mindfulness, somatic awareness, and nervous system support—to help address the emotional and physical imprints of addiction. Recovery isn’t a straight line. It’s a process of reconnection—to your body, your truth, and your capacity to heal. You don’t have to walk it alone.
How do you work with clients on anger management?
Anger is a natural and normal emotion, but when it becomes overwhelming, uncontrollable, or causes harm to yourself or others, it can be challenging to manage. Many people struggle with expressing their anger in healthy ways or may feel trapped by their emotional responses. Anger management therapy is about learning to understand, express, and regulate your emotions in ways that are constructive and empowering. Here’s how I work with clients to help them manage anger: 1. Understanding the Root Causes of Anger Anger is often a secondary emotion—meaning that it can be triggered by deeper feelings, such as hurt, frustration, fear, or helplessness. In our work together, I help clients explore the underlying causes of their anger. By understanding what is truly fueling the anger—whether it’s unresolved pain, unmet needs, or past experiences—we can start to address the root causes, not just the surface-level reaction. 2. Identifying Anger Triggers and Patterns Everyone experiences anger differently, and there are specific triggers and patterns that set off the emotional response. In therapy, we’ll work together to identify your unique anger triggers—whether it's stress, feeling disrespected, feeling out of control, or something else. By becoming aware of these triggers, you can begin to recognize when your anger is building, which is the first step in managing it more effectively. 3. Exploring the Physical and Emotional Signs of Anger Anger often manifests physically—such as increased heart rate, tension, or clenching fists—and emotionally, such as irritability or frustration. Part of anger management involves learning to recognize these early warning signs before the anger escalates. We’ll practice tuning into these signals so that you can intervene earlier in the process, preventing the anger from getting out of control. 4. Developing Coping Strategies and Healthy Outlets Once we understand your triggers and early signs, we focus on developing coping strategies that help you express anger in a healthy way. These strategies may include: Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Learning to stay calm and centered when anger arises is a key part of anger management. I teach relaxation techniques like deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or mindfulness meditation to help you regain emotional balance in the heat of the moment. Time-Outs and Physical Release: Sometimes the best way to manage anger is to give yourself a break before responding. Taking a “time-out” allows you to cool down, reflect, and gather your thoughts before reacting. We may also explore physical outlets, like exercise or journaling, to release built-up tension and emotions. Reframing Negative Thoughts: Anger is often driven by distorted thinking, such as catastrophizing, blaming, or overgeneralizing. In therapy, we’ll work on identifying these thought patterns and replacing them with more balanced, rational ways of thinking. For example, instead of thinking, “This is unfair, and I can’t stand it,” you might reframe it to, “This situation is frustrating, but I can handle it.” 5. Improving Communication Skills Anger often leads to communication breakdowns, where people might lash out, shout, or say things they don’t mean. We’ll work on improving your communication skills by teaching you how to express your feelings assertively—not aggressively. This might include using “I” statements (e.g., “I feel frustrated when...”) instead of blaming language (e.g., “You always...”). By expressing your needs and emotions clearly, without aggression, you’ll find that your relationships improve, and your anger becomes more manageable. 6. Learning to Manage Expectations and Boundaries Often, anger arises when we feel our boundaries are being violated, or our expectations are unrealistic. In therapy, I help clients explore their boundaries—whether they are emotional, physical, or psychological—and teach you how to set healthy boundaries with others. We also discuss the importance of adjusting expectations, recognizing when they may be unrealistic, and letting go of the need for control over situations or people you can’t change. 7. Building Emotional Regulation Skills Anger can often be a response to feeling out of control. By learning emotional regulation skills, we can help you manage your emotions more effectively. This includes skills such as self-soothing, practicing emotional awareness, and understanding the link between your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Over time, you’ll develop greater emotional resilience, which makes it easier to navigate challenging situations without being overwhelmed by anger. 8. Exploring Long-Term Solutions and Personal Growth Anger management isn’t just about managing the immediate emotional outbursts—it’s about long-term personal growth. In therapy, we’ll explore how anger fits into your broader emotional landscape and work toward building a deeper understanding of your emotional needs and patterns. This may include addressing past trauma, improving self-esteem, or exploring ways to cultivate inner peace and self-compassion. How Anger Management Can Help: Healthier Emotional Expression: You’ll learn how to express anger in ways that are constructive and don’t harm relationships. Stronger Relationships: By improving communication and understanding, you can reduce conflict and foster more positive, respectful interactions with others. Better Self-Control: Through emotional regulation and mindfulness, you’ll be able to manage anger before it becomes explosive, leading to better control over your emotional responses. Reduced Stress and Anxiety: Learning to manage anger in a healthy way helps reduce the physical and emotional toll that unresolved anger can have on your overall well-being. Increased Self-Awareness: By exploring the root causes of your anger and its triggers, you’ll gain greater self-awareness, which will help you navigate stressful situations with more clarity and calmness. Working through anger management can help you break free from the cycle of impulsive reactions, improve your relationships, and regain a sense of control over your emotional life. Together, we’ll create a plan to help you build healthier responses to anger, fostering more peace and emotional well-being in your day-to-day life.
How can you provide care remotely?
I understand that life can sometimes make it difficult to attend in-person sessions, and I believe that healing and support should be accessible no matter where you are. That’s why I offer remote sessions designed to meet your needs while maintaining a high level of care, connection, and confidentiality. Whether you’re seeking therapy, holistic guidance, or support through stress, anxiety, trauma, or other challenges, remote sessions can be just as effective as in-person work. Here’s how I provide care remotely: Convenient and Flexible: Remote sessions offer flexibility, allowing you to receive support from the comfort of your home or anywhere that feels safe and private. Whether you prefer video calls, phone calls, or even written sessions, we can find a format that works best for you. Building Connection: Even though we're not in the same room, I use technology to create a strong, supportive connection. I ensure that our sessions are just as engaging, empathetic, and interactive as if we were face-to-face. I am fully present and committed to supporting you during our time together. Confidential and Secure: I use secure, HIPAA-compliant platforms for video calls and other forms of communication to ensure your privacy and confidentiality. Your well-being is my priority, and I take every step to ensure a safe space for you to open up. Tailored Approaches: Just like in-person sessions, our work together will be personalized to meet your unique needs. Whether it’s exploring your challenges, offering coping tools, or providing guidance, I’ll adapt the session to suit you, ensuring that you get the most out of our time together. Access to Holistic Tools: Whether it’s mindfulness, breathwork, energy work, or other holistic methods, I can guide you through these practices remotely. I’ll provide you with the resources, exercises, and support to use between sessions, empowering you to continue your healing outside of our meetings. Ongoing Support: You’ll have access to support in between sessions, whether that’s through check-ins, follow-up emails, or messaging. I’m here to guide you as you progress on your journey, no matter where you’re located. Comfort and Privacy: Many clients feel more comfortable sharing personal information in their own space, and remote therapy can offer a sense of privacy that may not be available in an office setting. You can choose an environment where you feel relaxed and secure, which can enhance your healing process. Remote care offers flexibility and convenience, and it’s just as effective as in-person therapy. Whether you’re at home, traveling, or living in another location, you can still receive the support you need to heal and grow. I’m here to walk with you every step of the way, no matter the distance.
How do you work with clients with self esteem issues?
Struggling with self-esteem can feel like you’re constantly battling an inner voice that tells you you're not good enough, or that you're unworthy of love and respect. Whether these feelings stem from past experiences, societal pressure, or your own inner critics, it can be incredibly draining. If you're dealing with low self-esteem, you're not alone, and the good news is that with the right support, it is possible to rebuild your self-worth and cultivate a healthier, more compassionate relationship with yourself. Here’s how I work with clients who are navigating self-esteem issues: Creating a Safe, Non-Judgmental Space: Low self-esteem often comes with feelings of shame, guilt, or fear of being judged. In our work together, I create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore the roots of your self-esteem challenges without fear of criticism. This is a place where you can be honest and vulnerable while feeling completely supported. Identifying Negative Thought Patterns: Many people with low self-esteem struggle with negative self-talk and distorted beliefs, like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never be successful.” In our sessions, we’ll work together to identify these harmful thought patterns and begin to challenge and reframe them. By changing how you think about yourself, we can begin to shift how you feel. Building Self-Awareness: Often, low self-esteem is tied to past experiences, childhood wounds, or societal expectations that have shaped how you view yourself. We’ll explore the root causes of your self-esteem struggles, gently unpacking the experiences that contributed to these beliefs. Through this self-awareness, we can start to separate who you truly are from the negative narratives you’ve been carrying. Fostering Self-Compassion: One of the most important aspects of healing from low self-esteem is learning to treat yourself with kindness and understanding. We’ll work on developing self-compassion—learning how to talk to yourself in the same gentle, supportive way you would talk to a close friend. I’ll help you challenge the harsh inner critic and replace it with a more loving, nurturing inner voice. Reframing Self-Worth: Self-esteem is not about being perfect; it’s about recognizing your inherent worth as a human being. I’ll guide you in exploring what makes you unique, valuable, and worthy of love and respect. Together, we’ll create a more realistic and positive understanding of your strengths and qualities, helping you appreciate who you are, even on difficult days. Building Confidence Through Action: Confidence often comes from taking small steps and experiencing success in areas of life that matter to you. We’ll work together to set achievable goals, celebrate your progress, and build confidence through action. Whether it’s trying something new, speaking up for yourself, or making self-care a priority, every step you take will reinforce your growing self-esteem. Setting Boundaries and Asserting Your Needs: Low self-esteem can make it difficult to set boundaries and advocate for yourself in relationships or work situations. I’ll help you develop the tools and skills needed to establish healthy boundaries, express your needs, and assert yourself with confidence. By practicing this, you’ll begin to feel more empowered and worthy of respect in all areas of your life. Celebrating Your Wins: Low self-esteem often leads us to downplay our achievements or overlook our progress. I’ll encourage you to celebrate your wins, both big and small, and help you learn to recognize and acknowledge your growth. Recognizing your strengths and accomplishments is key to building lasting self-esteem. Creating a Positive Support System: Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive people is essential for fostering self-esteem. We’ll explore how you can build and nurture relationships that uplift you, as well as identify any toxic dynamics that might be negatively impacting your sense of self-worth. Healing from low self-esteem is a journey, but it's one that leads to profound personal growth, empowerment, and joy. By working together, we’ll rebuild your confidence, self-compassion, and sense of inner worth, allowing you to step into a more authentic, empowered version of yourself. Would you like to incorporate specific therapeutic methods, like cognitive-behavioral techniques, mindfulness, or strengths-based approaches, into this description? Let me know if you’d like to tailor it even more to your style.
How does trauma focused therapy work and how can it help?
Trauma-focused therapy is a specialized approach designed to help individuals who have experienced trauma process and heal from their painful experiences. Trauma can be deeply disrupting, not just emotionally but also physically and mentally, leaving long-lasting effects on how we view ourselves, others, and the world around us. Trauma-focused therapy provides a structured, safe space to work through these impacts, regain a sense of control, and ultimately heal. Here’s how trauma-focused therapy works and how it can help: 1. Creating a Safe, Supportive Environment The first step in trauma-focused therapy is establishing a safe, non-judgmental, and trusting therapeutic relationship. For many people, trauma erodes their sense of safety, so it’s crucial to create a space where you can feel comfortable, heard, and supported. This safe environment allows you to begin the process of addressing painful memories without the fear of being judged or retraumatized. 2. Educating and Understanding Trauma In trauma-focused therapy, part of the work involves learning about the impact of trauma. Understanding how trauma affects the mind, body, and emotions can be empowering. We’ll explore how your past experiences may still be influencing your current thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. This awareness helps you make sense of your reactions and helps us identify how to move toward healing. 3. Gradual Exposure to Trauma Memories One of the core aspects of trauma-focused therapy is gently and safely re-experiencing the trauma memories. This doesn’t mean overwhelming yourself, but gradually exploring the emotions and thoughts associated with the traumatic event(s) in a controlled way. This helps to reduce the emotional charge of the memories over time, allowing you to regain control of the trauma instead of feeling overwhelmed or trapped by it. 4. Reprocessing and Reframing Trauma-Related Thoughts Trauma often leads to negative and distorted thoughts, such as feelings of shame, guilt, or believing that you are somehow responsible for what happened. In trauma-focused therapy, we work on identifying these negative thought patterns and replacing them with more balanced, healthy beliefs. Through techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), we can help you process and reframe these thoughts, promoting a healthier sense of self and understanding of the event. 5. Building Coping Strategies and Emotional Regulation Trauma can make it difficult to regulate emotions, leading to overwhelming feelings of anxiety, anger, or sadness. In trauma-focused therapy, we develop practical coping strategies that help you manage distressing emotions. Mindfulness, grounding techniques, and relaxation exercises are often used to help you stay present and reduce anxiety when memories or triggers arise. 6. Strengthening Resilience and Empowerment While trauma may feel like it takes away your power, trauma-focused therapy aims to help you reclaim your sense of control and agency. We focus on building resilience—your inner strength to cope with challenges—and empower you to move forward with confidence. This can involve rediscovering your values, passions, and strengths that were overshadowed by trauma. 7. Addressing the Impact on Relationships Trauma can affect how we relate to others, often leading to difficulties in trusting, communicating, or feeling safe in relationships. Trauma-focused therapy can help you rebuild these connections. We explore how trauma has shaped your relationships, work through relational challenges, and help you set healthy boundaries, leading to healthier and more fulfilling connections with others. 8. Finding Healing and Meaning One of the most profound benefits of trauma-focused therapy is helping you find meaning in your experiences, so they no longer define you in a negative way. This might involve grieving, acceptance, or even discovering ways to use your experiences to grow and empower others. Healing from trauma doesn’t mean forgetting it, but learning how to integrate it in a way that allows you to live a more whole and fulfilled life. How Trauma-Focused Therapy Can Help: Emotional Relief: It helps you process overwhelming emotions and reduce the impact of emotional triggers. Reduced Symptoms: It can reduce symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression, leading to an improved sense of well-being. Restoring Control: It helps you regain a sense of control and safety in your life, which is often disrupted after trauma. Improved Relationships: It supports the healing of relational wounds and helps you build healthier, more trusting relationships. Increased Resilience: It empowers you with coping tools and emotional skills, so you feel stronger and more capable in handling future challenges. Trauma-focused therapy can help you move from a place of feeling stuck and overwhelmed by your trauma to one of healing, empowerment, and growth. You don’t have to carry the weight of trauma alone, and with the right support, it’s possible to reclaim your life and your sense of peace.
How do you work with clients with stress?
Stress is something that affects all of us at different times in life, but when it becomes chronic, it can take a toll on your body, mind, and overall well-being. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by work, relationships, or life’s demands, I’m here to help you find ways to manage stress and create more balance in your life. In our work together, I take a holistic approach, addressing not just the stressors themselves, but how your mind, body, and emotions are reacting to them. My goal is to help you regain a sense of calm, clarity, and control—without adding more pressure. Here’s how we can approach stress together: Identifying Stress Triggers: We’ll begin by identifying the sources of your stress—whether it’s external (work, family, finances) or internal (self-doubt, perfectionism, or worry). Understanding where your stress is coming from is the first step toward managing it. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Together, we’ll explore mindfulness practices, deep breathing exercises, and relaxation techniques to help calm your nervous system and bring you back into the present moment. These practices can be especially helpful in moments when stress feels overwhelming. Somatic Awareness: Stress often manifests physically—tight shoulders, clenched jaws, shallow breathing. We’ll focus on becoming aware of how stress is showing up in your body and work to release tension through movement, breathwork, or gentle body awareness techniques. Building Healthy Coping Strategies: I’ll help you develop practical coping strategies to manage stress in everyday life. Whether it’s time management, boundary-setting, or learning to say no, we’ll create actionable steps to reduce overwhelm and help you regain balance. Mindset Shifts: Stress often comes with negative thought patterns—like “I have to do everything perfectly” or “I can’t handle this.” Together, we’ll explore and shift these thought patterns to create a more realistic and compassionate mindset, helping you respond to stress more effectively. Creating Long-Term Balance: Stress management isn’t just about short-term relief—it’s about creating long-term balance. We’ll explore lifestyle changes that support your well-being, like sleep hygiene, nutrition, exercise, and building in relaxation time to prevent burnout. Stress doesn’t have to control your life. Together, we can find ways to manage it, so you can feel more grounded, resilient, and at ease in your daily life.
How do you work with clients with women's issues?
As women, we often face unique challenges related to our identities, roles, and societal expectations. Whether it's navigating the pressures of balancing work, family, and personal life, dealing with issues of self-worth, body image, gender inequality, trauma, or exploring reproductive health, these experiences can shape our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. If you’re facing challenges related to being a woman in today’s world, I’m here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can explore, heal, and grow. Here’s how I work with clients who are navigating women’s issues: 1. Providing a Safe, Empowering Space The first step is creating a space where you feel heard, validated, and respected. I understand the importance of feeling comfortable to discuss the unique issues women face, and I work to provide an open, non-judgmental environment where you can be your true, authentic self. This space is a place where you can freely express your thoughts, emotions, and challenges without fear of judgment. 2. Addressing Societal and Cultural Pressures Many of the issues women face are deeply influenced by societal norms, expectations, and gender roles. Whether it's the pressure to conform to beauty standards, the expectations of “doing it all” or dealing with the impacts of gender-based discrimination, I help clients explore how these pressures affect their self-worth, identity, and mental health. Through this exploration, we can begin to challenge these external narratives and reclaim a sense of control over how you define yourself. 3. Navigating Life Transitions Women experience various life transitions—such as pregnancy, motherhood, career changes, aging, and menopause—that can bring up complex emotions and concerns. I support clients through these transitions by helping them process emotions, adjust to new roles, and find new strengths as they navigate these changes. Together, we’ll explore how to embrace these shifts and find meaning and empowerment in these experiences. 4. Supporting Reproductive Health and Motherhood Issues related to reproductive health, fertility, pregnancy, and motherhood can be deeply impactful, both physically and emotionally. I offer support for clients dealing with the challenges of fertility struggles, pregnancy loss, post-partum depression, and navigating the pressures of motherhood. We’ll explore the emotional and mental health aspects of these experiences, helping you find peace, resilience, and balance during difficult times. 5. Working with Body Image and Self-Worth Many women struggle with body image issues, often due to societal beauty standards, childhood experiences, or internalized messages about what is “acceptable.” We work together to challenge these negative beliefs, develop a healthier relationship with your body, and cultivate self-love and self-compassion. The goal is to help you feel more connected to your body and embrace it as it is, rather than trying to fit into a narrow, externally defined ideal. 6. Empowering Through Self-Care and Boundaries Women often put the needs of others—whether family, work, or friends—before their own, which can lead to burnout, exhaustion, and loss of self-identity. I guide clients in learning to prioritize their own needs, set healthy boundaries, and establish self-care practices that nourish their mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for your own health and for being able to show up for others. 7. Healing from Trauma and Abuse Many women carry the weight of past trauma, whether it’s sexual abuse, domestic violence, emotional manipulation, or other forms of gender-based violence. If you’ve experienced trauma, I provide trauma-informed care that is gentle, validating, and empowering. Together, we’ll explore how these experiences have affected your sense of self, your relationships, and your mental health. We’ll work through healing and building resilience, using tools and approaches like EMDR, somatic therapy, or mindfulness practices to aid in your recovery. 8. Fostering Healthy Relationships Whether it's romantic relationships, friendships, or family dynamics, women often face challenges related to communication, codependency, or navigating power dynamics. I help clients explore how their relationships affect their self-esteem and well-being, offering guidance on how to set healthy boundaries, communicate more effectively, and create supportive, fulfilling connections. 9. Promoting Personal Empowerment At the heart of working with women’s issues is the goal of empowering you to reconnect with your authentic self, claim your voice, and embrace your personal power. Through self-discovery, resilience-building, and challenging limiting beliefs, I support you in developing confidence and assertiveness so that you can make empowered choices in all areas of your life. How This Therapy Can Help: Increased Self-Worth: Through healing, we work to strengthen your sense of self-esteem, self-compassion, and self-acceptance, so that you feel worthy of love and respect, regardless of societal expectations. Improved Mental Health: Addressing women’s unique struggles—such as gender-based trauma, body image, or societal pressures—can reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and stress, leading to a stronger sense of emotional balance. Empowered Decision-Making: Whether in relationships, career choices, or personal goals, therapy helps you trust yourself more and take action based on your own values and desires. Healing from Trauma: If you've experienced gender-based violence, abuse, or other traumatic events, I provide a trauma-informed approach to help you heal and reclaim your strength. Stronger, Healthier Relationships: Therapy can help you build better boundaries, communicate more effectively, and foster healthier relationships with others. Working through women’s issues can lead to profound personal growth and empowerment. My goal is to help you reconnect with your true self, find strength in your journey, and embrace all aspects of who you are as a woman.
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ADHD
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