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Sex Therapists in New York

Find the right therapist in New York for you. Each profile lists the insurances the provider takes, typical costs per session, and how to get in contact.
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Brianna Makówka

Sex Therapist And Relationship Expert
Online Therapy
Reclaim joy and intimacy in the hustle of NYC. Are you grappling with prolonged life imbalance, leading to increased anger, resentment, and isolation? As a dynamic individual or power couple navigating high-powered careers, you might find yourself dismissing needs and neglecting relationships. The toll on your physical, emotional, mental, and sexual well-being can be overwhelming. It's time to break free from the city grind, foster deeper connections, and embrace transformative intimacy. If you're seeking a solution tailored to your fast-paced New York life, sex-positive and kink-affirming therapy with me could be the key. Embark on a therapeutic adventure crafted for individuals and couples performing in high-pressure or demanding NYC environments. Our journey together involves uncovering your true sexual selves, nurturing sexual self-esteem, and mastering self-regulation. In our sessions, we'll fortify sexual exploration and expression through enhanced self-advocacy, increased body awareness, and refined conflict resolution skills. Together, we'll address the complexities of physical intimacy (desire, arousal, orgasm, erectile challenges, and painful intercourse) and navigate emotional intimacy challenges such as conflict management, trust, and fidelity. Specializing in consensual non-monogamy, our sessions could include exploring polyamory, ENM, swinging, sugar dating, and kink/BDSM—all within the context of your unique desires and curiosity. With my integrative approach to treatment, I offer a personalized and practical path to healing. Together, we'll delve into major themes such as creativity, love, meaning, freedom, and self-actualization. Grounded in the potential for change and self-directed growth, our sessions will identify physiological experiences to better understand psychological impacts on sexual functioning. Engage in fully virtual therapy sessions from the comfort and privacy of your personal space anywhere in New York State! Experience premium therapy, flexible sessions, and heightened confidentiality with my private pay services. Refuse dissatisfaction amidst your vibrant and active New York lives. Allow our work together to rebalance mental health and sexual wellness, simultaneously enhancing your professional successes and personal intimacy. Email today for a joyful, pleasurable, and purposeful life more in alignment with the authentic you.
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Mike Cotayo

Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Online Therapy
Looking for a Sex-Positive Therapist Who Gets It? Here I am! :) Hello there! I’m Mike Cotayo, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience helping people navigate life’s complexities. I earned my MSW from NYU in 2000, and in 2007, I embarked on a transformative journey to become a Gestalt Therapist, further refining my skills to provide compassionate, effective care. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, I bring a unique perspective to my work, specializing in sexuality, relationships, and identity. My practice is rooted in a commitment to embracing diverse lifestyles and choices. Whether you're exploring kink, polyamory, or the intersection of disability and sexuality (a focus of my Ph.D. research), I’m here to support you with empathy, humor, and zero judgment. Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing. I believe every session should be a safe space where you can be yourself and even find moments of lightness on your journey. Let’s work together to create a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely yours. Ready to take the first step? Reach out today—I’d love to help! Licensed in AZ, CT, NJ, NY, FL. *Treatment philosophy At Healing Our Parts, I believe in a holistic, patient-centered approach to mental health. My focus is on building a strong therapeutic relationship, where each client's unique experiences are valued. I specialize in emotional regulation, anger management, and anxiety reduction, creating tailored treatment plans that align with individual goals. I embrace diversity and work with clients facing various challenges, including trauma and addiction. Laughter and creativity play key roles in my practice, fostering healing and resilience. Together, we will navigate your journey to emotional wellness, ensuring you feel heard, supported, and empowered every step of the way. *Treatment approach •Holistic Approach to Mental Wellness •Emotional Regulation Techniques •Anger Management Strategies •Anxiety Reduction Methods •Crisis Intervention Skills •Trauma-Informed Care Practices •Harm Reduction Psychotherapy •Culturally Sensitive Interventions •Client-Centered Treatment Planning •Evidence-Based Therapy Techniques •Psychodynamic •Strength-Based •Gestalt •Experiential Therapy •Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) •Attachment-based •Coaching •Eclectic •Family Systems •Humanistic •Solution Focused Brief (SFBT) •Somatic •Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors •Telehealth sessions *Practice description At Healing Our Parts Group Psychotherapy Practice, we focus on nurturing emotional health and wellness. Led by Michael Cotayo, LCSW-R, our practice offers compassionate outpatient therapy for adolescents and adults, both in-person and via telehealth. We specialize in emotional regulation, anger management, and anxiety reduction. Our diverse clientele includes individuals navigating challenges related to HIV/AIDS, PTSD, addictions, and personality disorders. We create personalized treatment plans tailored to each client's unique goals. Let us support you on your journey to healing and growth in a safe, understanding environment. Your well-being is our priority.
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Connor McCann

Psychotherapist
Online & In-Person
What's your experience working with issues in sex and sexuality?
Understanding your sexual identity can be a difficult journey. Sexuality and gender are fluid, and finding yourself in the many labels and identities can be overwhelming. In session, I strive to create a safe, open-minded and understanding space for you to figure out what feels right for you. My goal will be to help you embrace and understand who you truly are.
Are you or a loved one feeling stuck – uncertain about navigating changes in your life, how you see yourself, or how to reconnect with those close to you? When we feel stuck, taking steps forward can feel like a monumental task. We can work together to break down your thoughts and uncertainties, determine the best way forward, and put practical strategies into action, to empower you to create the life you want for yourself. In me, you’ll have a collaborator who will follow your lead and ensure you feel you heard but will be willing to challenge you and continue to motivate you towards achieving your goals. Therapy with me involves weaving together practical skill-building and evidence-based strategies to help you achieve your individualized goals. I work with individuals experiencing difficult life transitions at work, at home, or at school. Through individual, parent, or family sessions, we will untangle your thoughts, improve your self-esteem, and take tangible steps towards sustainable change. Neurodiversity (Autism & ADHD) affirming and LGBTQ+ friendly, I always take a person-centric approach. When you have a better understanding of who you are and what you want, your goals will feel attainable. Everyone has the ability to move past the struggles they’re experiencing, and together we can create solutions and develop skills to build long-term happiness. If you’re ready to learn how we can work together, email or call me for a 15-minute consultation.