Nellie Harari
Online & In-Person
Accepting New Clients
Clinical psychologist
Brooklyn, New York
License 017500-1
https://www.newheightscbt.com/About Nellie
You know something needs to change. Maybe you have carried a quiet sense for a while that something is not quite right. On the outside, you are capable and accomplished. On the inside, there may be anxiety, self-doubt, or a persistent feeling of not being good enough. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with nearly 20 years of experience working with adults. I believe change is possible. Together, we clarify what is keeping you stuck and move in a focused, collaborative way toward a more confident, values-driven life.
I specialize in working with thoughtful, driven adults who feel stuck in anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, and depression. Using CBT, we look closely at the patterns between your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors and work in a focused, collaborative way to shift them, so you can move through life with more flexibility, confidence, self-trust, and joy.
Clients often share that they feel understood, gently challenged, and supported in ways that make meaningful change feel possible. If you’re ready to take a thoughtful, steady look at what’s keeping you stuck, I invite you to reach out. We can begin working toward changes that feel real and lasting.
$350 per session
Sliding Scale
Out of Pocket
How do you work with clients with anxiety?
Please see my webpage on how I work with anxiety:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/anxiety-therapist-brooklyn-ny/
How does cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) work and how can it help?
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy has a reputation in some circles for being cold, formulaic, or overly focused on worksheets and homework. While I understand where that perception comes from, in my 20 years of practice, I've found it to be a profound misconception when considering applied practice.
CBT, done well, is deeply relational. The techniques only work when they are delivered within a therapeutic relationship built on genuine trust, curiosity, and compassion. Before a patient can challenge a core belief or sit with a feared situation, they need to feel truly understood by their therapist. The "cognitive" and "behavioral" parts get all the attention, but the human connection is the container that makes any of it possible.
In my own practice, I've never believed that loyalty to a single modality serves patients better than flexibility and clinical judgment. A supervisor I greatly admired early in my career put it simply and perfectly: CBT is not exclusionary. It allows for all kinds of theory and technique, as long as it works. That idea has stayed with me ever since. Over the years I have integrated approaches (i.e. ACT, DBT skills, Compassion Focused Therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy) not only because of what they unlock therapeutically, but because each one has deepened the way I conceptualize and understand my patients. Together they offer a richer, more holistic lens on a person's inner life and problems than any single framework can provide alone. The through line is always the evidence base; what I individualize is how I use it, and for whom.
What I wish more people understood is that evidence-based therapy is not the opposite of warm, attuned, individualized care. The best CBT therapists I know lead with empathy and curiosity first, and technique second. Structure and warmth are not in tension. In fact, patients often tell me that having a clear, collaborative roadmap for their treatment makes them feel more cared for, not less, because it signals that their pain is being taken seriously.
When I turn to the science, I do so in service of my patients, not as a substitute for truly seeing them.
How do you work with clients with depression?
Please see my blog how CBT helps with depression:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/why-is-cbt-effective-for-depression/
What should people thinking about working with you, know about you?
With 20 years of experience as a cognitive behavioral therapist, I offer deep expertise in CBT while flexibly integrating a range of evidence-based, CBT-aligned approaches — including ACT, DBT skills, Compassion Focused Therapy, and Emotion Focused Therapy. This allows me to tailor treatment to each individual rather than fitting patients into a single mold.
I am committed to staying at the leading edge of the field. I volunteer as a clinical supervisor at Ferkauf Graduate School, which keeps me continuously engaged with emerging research and evolving best practices. I am currently training in Inference-Based CBT for OCD (alongside my existing ERP work), and this summer I will be pursuing training in Pain Reprocessing Therapy for chronic pain.
What drives this ongoing pursuit of new skills is a core conviction: my patients deserve both the most effective tools available and a therapist who takes the time to truly understand them as whole people. Empirical rigor and genuine compassion are not competing values in my practice; they are inseparable ones. My goal in every treatment relationship is to offer care that is not only scientifically grounded, but deeply human.
What do therapy sessions with you look like?
Please see my webpage on what services I offer and what to expect early in the process of therapy:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/services/
How do you work with clients with self esteem issues?
Please see my webpage on therapy for self esteem: https://www.newheightscbt.com/self-esteem-therapist-brooklyn-ny/
And my blog :
https://www.newheightscbt.com/whats-the-difference-between-self-esteem-and-self-confidence/
How do you work with clients with stress?
Please see my blog on stress:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/stress-in-the-city-a-compassionate-approach-to-managing-stress/
How do you work with clients with women's issues?
Please see my webpage on therapy for women:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/therapy-for-women-brooklyn-ny/
How do you work with clients with sleep or insomnia issues?
Please see my webpage on therapy for insomnia:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/insomnia-therapist-brooklyn-ny/
And my blog:
https://www.newheightscbt.com/how-is-therapy-for-insomnia-different-from-self-help-sleep-strategies/
Interested in talking?
(718) 551-5127