I have 27 years of full-time experience in therapy as an Army/Federal prison/hospital Chaplain (Major, Reserve and Department of Justice / Federal Bureau of Prisons, Retired), in missions, and in youth ministry. I have the Basic Certificate in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR, for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). I am an American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) Professional Member (11/25 renewal?) and am ordained by the Vineyard USA. I was endorsed by the National Association of Evangelicals' Chaplains Commission for 24 years until I retired.

I hear both sides of the story, find out what you want to work on, and then we go from there.

Please see https://www.emdr.com/

I worked in hospitals for 2.5 years and helped people through at least 60 deaths.

I have you fill out intake paperwork, find out what you need, and we go from there.

Change is constant and certain. ... You have to want to change. ... You are the expert in your life. ... You already have the resources to overcome your problems. ... Therapy can be short-term. ... Focus on what's possible, not what's impossible. ... It's all about solutions. https://www.andrews.edu/ceis/gpc/faculty-research/coffen-research/trepper_2010_solution.pdf

I've been in full-time ministry for 29 years, so I can probably help you,

I've been in full-time ministry for 29 years, so I can probably help you.