Self-Harming Therapists in New Jersey

Looking for a Sex-Positive Therapist Who Gets It? Here I am! :) Hello there! I’m Mike Cotayo, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience helping people navigate life’s complexities. I earned my MSW from NYU in 2000, and in 2007, I embarked on a transformative journey to become a Gestalt Therapist, further refining my skills to provide compassionate, effective care. As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, I bring a unique perspective to my work, specializing in sexuality, relationships, and identity. My practice is rooted in a commitment to embracing diverse lifestyles and choices. Whether you're exploring kink, polyamory, or the intersection of disability and sexuality (a focus of my Ph.D. research), I’m here to support you with empathy, humor, and zero judgment. Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing. I believe every session should be a safe space where you can be yourself and even find moments of lightness on your journey. Let’s work together to create a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely yours. Ready to take the first step? Reach out today—I’d love to help! Licensed in AZ, CT, NJ, NY, FL. *Treatment philosophy At Healing Our Parts, I believe in a holistic, patient-centered approach to mental health. My focus is on building a strong therapeutic relationship, where each client's unique experiences are valued. I specialize in emotional regulation, anger management, and anxiety reduction, creating tailored treatment plans that align with individual goals. I embrace diversity and work with clients facing various challenges, including trauma and addiction. Laughter and creativity play key roles in my practice, fostering healing and resilience. Together, we will navigate your journey to emotional wellness, ensuring you feel heard, supported, and empowered every step of the way. *Treatment approach •Holistic Approach to Mental Wellness •Emotional Regulation Techniques •Anger Management Strategies •Anxiety Reduction Methods •Crisis Intervention Skills •Trauma-Informed Care Practices •Harm Reduction Psychotherapy •Culturally Sensitive Interventions •Client-Centered Treatment Planning •Evidence-Based Therapy Techniques •Psychodynamic •Strength-Based •Gestalt •Experiential Therapy •Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) •Attachment-based •Coaching •Eclectic •Family Systems •Humanistic •Solution Focused Brief (SFBT) •Somatic •Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors •Telehealth sessions *Practice description At Healing Our Parts Group Psychotherapy Practice, we focus on nurturing emotional health and wellness. Led by Michael Cotayo, LCSW-R, our practice offers compassionate outpatient therapy for adolescents and adults, both in-person and via telehealth. We specialize in emotional regulation, anger management, and anxiety reduction. Our diverse clientele includes individuals navigating challenges related to HIV/AIDS, PTSD, addictions, and personality disorders. We create personalized treatment plans tailored to each client's unique goals. Let us support you on your journey to healing and growth in a safe, understanding environment. Your well-being is our priority.

I am available for teletherapy and work with adults who are looking to connect with a licensed professional to process life’s stressors and address specific emotional responses and behaviors. Life is tough and reaching out for help with managing some aspects is the right thing to do. I use Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to treat mood changes, trauma, impulse control and anxiety although not exclusively.

Psicoterapeuta especialista en Aceptacion y Compromiso(ACT). Terapias Contextuales. Psicología positiva y Regulación emocional. Orientada en la empatia y amabilidad hacia los niños, adolescentes y adultos.

Haidelyn Cordero is a board certified licensed clinical social worker in Florida and New Jersey. Haidelyn works with young adults, early adulthood, and veterans. She provides care to clients who struggle with anxiety/depression, borderline personality disorder, stress management, chronic illnesses, comorbidity disorder, family conflict, self-worth/self-esteem, boundary setting, and relationship conflict. Haidelyn has extensive experience working with individuals who struggle with mental health and has been board certified licensed clinical social worker for 4 years. Haidelyn is board certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). In addition, Haidelyn is certified in Intimate Partner Violence where she can provide interventions to promote a healthier relationship. Haidelyn’ s treatment approach is rooted in evidence based practices that is strength based and patient centered. Haidelyn studied at Barry University where she obtained her Masters in Social Work. She has worked in the social service field with homeless clients who were struggling with comorbities disorders for 5 years, she has worked with immigrants who were struggling with domestic violence, alcohol abuse, and gang related problems for over 2 years, and she has worked and continues to work in the medical field for 5 years as an inpatient social worker and currently as an emergency social worker. Haidelyn’ s main goals for her clients include reducing symptoms of anxiety/depression, assist clients in accomplishing their goals, improve the daily life of her client through DBT therapy, and to promote personal growth and personal strength. Haidelyn believes that in her practice, her clients can overcome any obstacle presented to them with consistency, motivation, and dedication to improve their wellbeing. She believes that clients have to want to improve their lives and with some unique interventions, compassion, and empathic listening they can propelled forward to a better future. Haidelyn has excelled in her career because she is dedicated and passionate about helping her clients tap into their strengths, achieve their goals, and provides them a non-judgmental safe space to explore their thoughts and feelings. Haidelyn is an avid reader, practices working out 3-4 times a week, loves to spend time with her Yorkipoo Keanu, and loves to travel around the world discovering different cultures. Her clients inspire her to continue growing professionally to provide them with the best interventions and to improve their quality of life. Haidelyn accepts Aetna, Cigna, Florida Blue, Humana, and United Healthcare insurance. If you are experiencing any struggles or simply want someone to chat with, please reach out via telephone or email to schedule an appointment.

Through the stress of everyday life, so many of us have learned to put our needs aside. Often, we ignore them in the service of others, overwhelm, or simply not knowing how to nurture ourselves. I help clients to develop insight around why they may do this and address the root cause of the problem for healing that lasts. It is my honor and privilege to join you on this journey.

Hello, I'm Tolulope Kolawole, DNP, PMHNP-BC, and I’ve dedicated 19 years to delivering comprehensive mental health care. My passion is to provide holistic, evidence-based treatments for children, adolescents, adults, and seniors. I specialize in helping individuals manage conditions such as anxiety, ADHD, depression, mood disorders, and substance abuse. My approach is client-centered, integrating psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness practices, and alternative treatments to meet each patient’s unique needs. I believe in clear communication, ensuring patients fully understand their care plan, and I am committed to collaborating with other healthcare professionals for the best possible outcomes. Treatment philosophy: I believe in a holistic, client-centered approach that integrates cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and psychodynamic techniques. My treatment plans are tailored to meet individual needs, promoting emotional regulation, coping skills, and overall mental well-being. I aim to create a therapeutic relationship that encourages healing and empowerment for lasting mental health improvements.

As a licensed clinical social worker, I strive to create a comfortable and safe environment for you. A space that is judgement free and where you have the ability to truly express yourself.
 Since opening my practice in 2018, my therapeutic services have helped people get through stressful times through challenging negative thoughts and understanding the source of specific behaviors and emotional patterns. With the right tools and a better approach to situations, I will help encourage a better outlook on any issues that life brings your way. My expertise lies in working with children, adolescents, and young adults. I have extensive experience working in the school system at both the middle and high school levels. As well as experience working with adolescents and adults suffering from an array of mental health issues in intensive out patient settings. In my practice I strive to provide a space where you play an equal role in the therapy process. I feel it is important for you to be the sole narrator of your story, while I am here to provide you with the safety, comfort, and guidance you need to tell your story.

My name is Shira Collings (she/they). I specialize in working with clients with eating disorders, disordered eating, body image distress, and those wanting to break free from diet culture. As a diet culture dropout myself, I am passionate about supporting others in finding freedom with food and body acceptance. I am also passionate about working with LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent folx, as well as those with substance use and trauma histories. My therapeutic approach is rooted in the Health At Every Size paradigm and body liberation. It is also informed by feminism, disability justice, and queer and trans liberation. I believe that healing comes from feeling heard, seen, and valued, and I strive to create a space in which clients can express their full, authentic selves.

Are you ready to embrace positive changes in your life? Are you ready to help your little one gain the tools they need to reach their full potential? I offer a warm, non-judgmental space that is uniquely suited to encourage the personal growth and success of you and your loved ones. I am the director of SageMind Psychology where we provide individualized, research-based, and cutting-edge treatments in the convenience of your home on a safe and secure telehealth platform. We are passionate about working with children, adolescents, and young adults in a way that truly speaks to them.