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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

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Sergio Trejo
Marriage and Family Therapist/Mindfulness Coach
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Therapy has been given different stereotypes, and stigmas. It can also be scary for many different reasons. I just want to acknowledge how difficult it can be to be vulnerable enough to seek help and treatment. I guess the one thing I would say is that therapy is what you make it. It will look different and feel different from what you may see on TV and movies. A good therapist will help you make it your own. But, we will never gat that chance without a first step.
In the 10 plus years I have been working in mental health, the one thing I can say for certain is that everyone has the capacity to heal and grow with strengths and skills already present within. Whether you are an athlete looking to align your mental strength with your physical skill, a child or adolescent learning to cope with change and transition, or a parent attempting to guide your child through life's challenges in the best way possible for them, I am here to provide guidance. I work collaboratively with clients and families to address symptoms of anxiety, depression, and behavioral challenges that impact functioning and performance in their everyday lives. I also look to help those athletes whom would like to increase their mental strength in order to elevate their success on and off the playing field. In my personal life, I am a husband, father, jiujitsu practitioner, and golf addict. I love to sit and enjoy a good cup of coffee with my daughter as we bing watch her current cartoon obsession. I love my family and getting outdoors. I am also bilingual Spanish speaking, with deep connection to my Guatemalan and El Salvadorian roots. My mantra in life is to try and "accept everything and judge nothing". When we can attempt to be present in every moment, we give ourselves the best chance at the healthiest response.
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Nayeem Lokhandwala
LMFT
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Therapy is a powerful tool for self-discovery and healing. It’s a safe space where you can share your story, explore your feelings, and find solutions without judgment. Taking that first step might feel daunting, but it can lead to meaningful growth and lasting change.
Welcome! I'm Nayeem Lokhandwala, a dedicated Mental Health Therapist. With over 24 years of experience, I've been supporting individuals and families through challenging times in California and Arizona. I hold a license as a Marriage and Family Therapist and have extensive expertise in crisis intervention and mental health counseling. My passion lies in offering personalized therapy, whether it's individual counseling or family therapy. I also have a strong background in managing mental health and addiction rehabilitation operations. My approach is patient-focused, ensuring care and compassion in crisis situations and long-term support. I am bilingual, fluent in Hindi, allowing me to communicate effectively with diverse communities. I'm committed to making a difference, helping those in need to find strength and resilience on their journey to mental wellness. Let's work together toward a healthier, happier future. TREATMENT PHILOSOPHY: My treatment philosophy centers on compassionate, patient-centered care. I believe in the power of listening and understanding each patient's unique story. I focus on helping individuals and families navigate their mental health challenges through supportive therapy. With 24 years of experience in mental health, I use evidence-based methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Behavioral Therapy to empower my clients. I strive to create a safe space where clients can explore their feelings and work towards healing. Collaboration with my team and open communication are key to effective treatment. Together, we can achieve lasting change and improve well-being.
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Sudha Purihella
Licensed Professional Counselor
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
I wish to ask them to think of allowing me to assist them to help themselves during difficult times.
Sudha Purihella, MA-Psychology; MA-Mental Health Counseling; LPC – (Licensed Professional Counselor). Psychotherapist, Individual and Group Specialist, Specialist South Asian Cultural issues. Sudha Purihella has two MA degree’s majoring in Psychology and Mental Health Counseling. She speaks fluent Telugu-South Indian language and understands Hindi. She has over 30 years of clinical experience in the field. She has worked in Clinical and Management positions in a wide variety of outpatient mental health settings and several levels of residential care from Crisis step-down, Transitional group home, Permanent Group Home and Independent Supervised Living at Woodley House, Inc in Washington, D.C. Due to her continued interest and passion for direct clinical services, she has entered the area of clinical private practice in 2003. Her approach is Eclectic, Cognitive-Behavioral, Psycho-dynamic, Humanistic, Solution-Focused, Life Coaching, Existential, and Reality Therapy. She is very intuitive, caring culturally sensitive, and demonstrates a skilled ability to empathize and build a positive alliance with her clients. She works collaboratively with her clients’ inner chaotic nature and empowers growth as well as self-efficacy.
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