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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

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Alyssa DeStefano
Compassionate LCSW Therapist
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
For anyone hesitant to try therapy, I’d say that therapy isn’t about being “broken” or needing to be “fixed”—it’s about having a safe, judgment-free space to explore your thoughts and feelings. Therapy can be a journey toward understanding yourself more deeply and finding tools that actually work for *you*. Taking that first step can feel daunting, but you don’t have to go it alone. A good therapist will meet you where you are and help at a pace that feels comfortable. I truly believe it can be one of the most valuable gifts you give yourself.
Hello! I'm Alyssa DeStefano, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Lake Worth, FL. With a decade of experience in mental health and substance use therapy, I am passionate about helping individuals lead healthier and more fulfilling lives. Currently, I offer virtual therapy sessions through Headway. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, I'm here to provide the support and guidance you need. My education includes a Master of Social Work from Fordham University and a Bachelor of Arts in Forensic Psychology from John Jay College of Criminal Justice. I am also a proud member of the Phi Kappa Phi Honor Society and have completed extensive training in crisis intervention, dual diagnosis, and more. I believe in a person-centered approach, focusing on individual needs and goals. Let's work together to find effective coping mechanisms and strategies to improve your well-being. *Specialties •Mental Health *Conditions treated •Depression •Anxiety •Bipolar disorders •PTSD •ADHD •Addiction •Family counseling •Relationship issues •Mood disorders •Trauma •Panic attacks •Women's Issues •Anger Management •Coping Skills •Grief •Parenting •Peer Relationships •Self Esteem *Treatment philosophy I believe that each person is unique and deserves to live a fulfilled life. My goal is to help my clients grow and learn. I am dedicated to teaching my clients the skills they need to combat their mental illness and move forward with a healthier way of thinking and living. I believe in a collaborative relationship with therapist and client in order to ensure a happier way of life. *Treatment approach •Cognitive Behavioral Therapy(CBT) •Emotionally Focused •Mindfulness-Based(MBCT) •Trauma-Focused •Person-Focused •Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) •Acceptance and Commitment (ACT) •Motivational Interviewing •Narrative •Positive Psychology •Psychodynamic •Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT) *Insurance •Aetna •Cigna •UnitedHealthcare •Oscar Health •Humana
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Blessing Chiedozie Promise
APRN, PMHNP-BC
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Therapy is a journey of self-discovery and healing, and taking the first step can be transformative. I create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can express yourself freely. Together, we will navigate your challenges at a pace you’re comfortable with, focusing on your unique needs and goals.
Hello, I'm Blessing Ijeoma Chiedozie Promise, a dedicated Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a passion for patient care. Based in Springfield, MA, I bring extensive experience in emergency response, medication administration, and patient support across various healthcare settings. My journey in healthcare has included roles at Tufts Medical Center, Baystate Medical Center, and CVS, where adaptability and effective communication have been essential. As a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, I am committed to providing compassionate and empathetic care to every individual I serve. Whether in clinical management, home care, or travel nursing, my focus is on ensuring quality, safety, and personalized attention for each patient. Certified in both basic and advanced life support, my goal is to help patients achieve their best health outcomes. TREATMENT PHILOSOPHY: My treatment philosophy is centered around compassion and patient empowerment. I believe in treating each individual with respect and understanding, recognizing the unique journey they are on. My approach is to listen actively, engage openly, and create a safe space for patients to express their needs and concerns. I prioritize patient education and collaboration, ensuring that my care plan aligns with their goals and values. With experience in both home care and hospital settings, I adapt my methods to provide personalized, effective care. I strive to build meaningful relationships with my patients, fostering trust and support throughout their healing process. Together, we can achieve better health outcomes and improve overall well-being.
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Abimbola Oluwasesin
FNP-BC, PMHNP-BC
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Seeking help is a courageous first step, and therapy can provide the support you need to navigate life’s challenges. I’m here to offer a non-judgmental, safe space to work through whatever you’re facing.
My name is Abimbola Oluwasesin, and I am committed to providing exceptional healthcare with over 10 years of nursing experience. I specialize in mental health and chronic medical conditions. My work spans nursing homes, outpatient and inpatient psychiatric hospitals, rehabilitation centers, and assisted and independent living facilities. I have a strong background in working with patients of all ages, from children to seniors, and I am experienced in caring for individuals with developmental disabilities. My education includes a Master's in Psychiatric Mental Health from Purdue Global University and a Master's in Family Nursing from the University of Cincinnati. I also hold a Bachelor's in Nursing from the University of Texas at Arlington. I am certified by the American Nurses Credentialing Center in both Family and Psychiatric Mental Health. Additionally, I have specialized training in Buprenorphine treatment, CPR, and am a certified Nurse Aide Program Director and Instructor. Currently, I work as a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner at Reliable Psychiatry LLC. My previous roles include primary care and psychiatric nurse practitioner, family nurse practitioner, and a variety of nursing positions in behavioral health and medical-surgical settings. I believe in clear communication and compassionate care, and I am dedicated to teaching and mentoring to improve patient outcomes. My mission is to provide holistic and patient-centered care to help you achieve your best health.
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Ana Alicia Potthast
DSW, LCSW, LCDC
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
I think that mental health is a personal journey, but it is also an investment into your pursuit of happiness. I tell everyone to give it a try.
Hi there! My name is Dr. Ana Alicia Potthast, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor with extensive experience and training in behavioral health, diagnostics, addiction, co-occurring disorders, depression, anxiety, personality disorders, trauma, domestic violence, sexual abuse and assault, maternity and fertility issues, grief and loss, hoarding, family dynamics and conflict, marital issues, sexual orientation and gender identification and expression, adjustment issues, stages in life, and many other situations that bring a client to seek counseling. I provide a collaborative and open approach therapeutic style, without any judgment to each client's unique situation. I am trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Family Systems Therapy, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy. I have a passion for assisting client's to reach their full potential and treatment goals. I obtained an Associate of Applied Science in American Sign Language from San Antonio College in San Antonio, TX, and then graduated with a Bachelor and Master of Social Work from Texas State University in San Marcos, TX, before obtaining a Doctor of Social Work from the University of Southern California in Los Angeles, California. I am an affirming ally for LGBTQIA clients, and this is a Safe Space. I am presently on the Board of Directors for Fiesta Youth, a member of PFLAG San Antonio, a Federal Club member for the Human Rights Campaign, and a former Steering Committee member for the Human Rights Campaign San Antonio. I was the first recipient of the Pride Center San Antonio Community Circle Award for my volunteer work in the community. Additionally, I work in the medical field, and I have extensive court room testimony experience regarding recommendations for contested custody situations and child welfare situations. I also have a passion for working along-side clients who are living with addiction, and the trauma and hardships they experience as they navigate towards a life of sobriety. I am a wife and mother, and I enjoy hobbies of going to concerts, volunteer work, geocaching, American Sign Language, watching documentaries, dancing, and spending time with family, friends, and my many pets.
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