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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

Patricia O'LaughlinP

Patricia O'Laughlin

Psychotherapist & Art Therapist
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Most people are hesitant to start therapy. I've learned that if you have a consistent voice telling you to do therapy you should probably start and see what happens. So many people have come to me and said they have been thinking about starting therapy for 10 years. My advice would be to not wait. If you think you could benefit from therapy, you probably can. And while its strange at first to open up to a stranger, a good therapist will help you reflect on things you can change but not judge you. I have a skill at helping people in individual and couples therapy learn about their dynamics and work on communication. You are not always going to like what your therapist says to you, because we can feel bad about the things we need to change. In therapy you are learning, and a good therapist knows this, they will listen, push a little, and praise the steps you make towards change. As a client your job is to take a risk and tell your therapist your honest truth, your therapist's job is to learn about you and nudge you towards change.
I have a passion for helping people who have educational and relational challenges due to ADHD & neurodivergence. I can help you if you are struggling in a relationship due to infidelity or divorce or just can't find the relationship you know you need. Many people who come to me are experiencing anxiety, depression, are unsure about how to help themself with stress or procrastination, feelings of instability during a life transition. Therapy is a wonderful opportunity for support, to grow insight, and make change. It's scary when you don't know why things aren't going your way. I have helped people understand their behaviors, feelings, and brain chemistry so they can be happier. We will focus on strengthening your mental well-being and helping you be true to yourself and the people you love. I do individual and couple's therapy.
Caitlin HillC

Caitlin Hill

Passionate counselor experienced working with trauma, anxiety and depression.
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
To those who are hesitant to try therapy, I would want to convey that it's completely understandable to feel apprehensive about seeking help. Taking that first step can be daunting, but it's important to recognize that therapy is a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. I wish I could tell them that therapy is not about being "broken" or "weak." It's about gaining insight, developing coping skills, and finding solutions to the challenges you're facing. It's a courageous act of self-care and self-discovery. I would want them to know that therapists are trained professionals who are here to listen, validate your experiences, and provide guidance and support as you work towards your goals. You have the power to create positive change in your life, and therapy can be a valuable tool on that journey. Lastly, I would emphasize that you don't have to face your struggles alone. Asking for help is a sign of strength, and therapy can offer you the support and resources you need to navigate life's ups and downs with resilience and confidence.
Hello! I'm Caitlin Hill, your dedicated Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with a passion for empowering individuals and families to overcome life's challenges. With a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology and a rich background in psychology from Kent State University, I bring a wealth of knowledge and compassionate care to my practice. My journey began in the military where I served as an active-duty officer, honing my leadership skills and learning the value of resilience. This experience has been instrumental in understanding the unique needs of military families, which I've addressed in professional conferences, highlighting virtual interventions for postpartum depression and anxiety among military spouses. I specialize in supporting adults with severe mental illnesses and co-occurring disorders. My approach is collaborative and tailored to each individual, utilizing evidence-based techniques like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR and Solution-Focused Therapy. Whether you're a veteran seeking support or anyone looking to build healthier coping strategies, I'm here to guide you through your journey with empathy and expertise. Outside the counseling room, I have trained in EMDR therapy as well as Level 2 Natural Lifemanship for Equine Assisted Psychotherapy – because sometimes healing goes beyond traditional methods. Let's connect and start crafting your path to wellness together. Your story matters, and I'm here to listen.
HAIDELYN CORDEROH

HAIDELYN CORDERO

Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
It takes courage to reach out and put all your vulnerabilities out there with someone you do not know but putting yourself first is just the beginning of the journey to a healthier better life.
Haidelyn Cordero is a board certified licensed clinical social worker in Florida and New Jersey. Haidelyn works with young adults, early adulthood, and veterans. She provides care to clients who struggle with anxiety/depression, borderline personality disorder, stress management, chronic illnesses, comorbidity disorder, family conflict, self-worth/self-esteem, boundary setting, and relationship conflict. Haidelyn has extensive experience working with individuals who struggle with mental health and has been board certified licensed clinical social worker for 4 years. Haidelyn is board certified in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). In addition, Haidelyn is certified in Intimate Partner Violence where she can provide interventions to promote a healthier relationship. Haidelyn’ s treatment approach is rooted in evidence based practices that is strength based and patient centered. Haidelyn studied at Barry University where she obtained her Masters in Social Work. She has worked in the social service field with homeless clients who were struggling with comorbities disorders for 5 years, she has worked with immigrants who were struggling with domestic violence, alcohol abuse, and gang related problems for over 2 years, and she has worked and continues to work in the medical field for 5 years as an inpatient social worker and currently as an emergency social worker. Haidelyn’ s main goals for her clients include reducing symptoms of anxiety/depression, assist clients in accomplishing their goals, improve the daily life of her client through DBT therapy, and to promote personal growth and personal strength. Haidelyn believes that in her practice, her clients can overcome any obstacle presented to them with consistency, motivation, and dedication to improve their wellbeing. She believes that clients have to want to improve their lives and with some unique interventions, compassion, and empathic listening they can propelled forward to a better future. Haidelyn has excelled in her career because she is dedicated and passionate about helping her clients tap into their strengths, achieve their goals, and provides them a non-judgmental safe space to explore their thoughts and feelings. Haidelyn is an avid reader, practices working out 3-4 times a week, loves to spend time with her Yorkipoo Keanu, and loves to travel around the world discovering different cultures. Her clients inspire her to continue growing professionally to provide them with the best interventions and to improve their quality of life. Haidelyn accepts Aetna, Cigna, Florida Blue, Humana, and United Healthcare insurance. If you are experiencing any struggles or simply want someone to chat with, please reach out via telephone or email to schedule an appointment.
Renee BineyR

Renee Biney

LISW-S
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
I believe there is support out there, no matter what life throws at us. I also hold a strong belief in the dignity and worth of all people, which translates into a client-centered approach. Values of this approach that I hold include: individuality, privacy, partnership, choice, dignity, respect, rights, equality, independence and diversity.
I am Renee. I am a clinician with over 10-years of experience working in the Mental Health field. I am an LISW-S in the State of Ohio. I received my bachelors degree in Social and Behavioral Studies. I am a proud graduate of the first social work school in the United States: Simmons College of Social Work in Boston, Massachusetts. While pursuing my graduate degree at Simmons College, I had an opportunity to learn how to provide a space without judgement, a space where my clients are understood, supported, shown empathy and unconditional positive regard; I would say that is my style of counseling! I have experience working with diverse populations including veterans, adults, children, families, individuals and groups. I utilize treatment modalities such as motivational interviewing, cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness therapy in the treatment of concerns including addiction, grief, depression, anxiety, personality disorders, adjustment disorders, and life’s stressors. I believe there is support out there, no matter what life throws at us. I also hold a strong belief in the dignity and worth of all people, which translates into a client-centered approach. Values of this approach that I hold include: individuality, privacy, partnership, choice, dignity, respect, rights, equality, independence and diversity. Book a session with me or with any of my amazing colleagues. We look forward to working with you!
Raffi BilekR

Raffi Bilek

Director of Therapy

For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

I'll tell you I think the most important advice is, is give it a shot. You know you got to find someone who's a good fit for you. I know it's uncomfortable to start. You can call me up and you know I'll give you a free consultation where we just talk a little bit, and you can get to know me a bit and see if you think it's a good fit. I really am nice I don't bite. I certainly don't judge, and whatever is going on for you I'd really like to help you through it. So feel free to give me a ring and let's let's talk about and you can see if you feel like it'd be helpful.