For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
I first want to say, that I completely understand. Therapy is a very personal decision and I commend anyone who takes this step in their lives. If you are thinking about beginning therapy, then you have already begun the process to personal and relational growth, as you are realizing that you may need a personal space, specifically designated for you (and your relationships), with a person with whom you can trust to help you navigate some of the most challenging times of your life. And with that, I recommend that you ask the questions needed and seek the comfort you are seeking to make this experience exactly as it should be for you...comfortable, positive, helpful, and supportive.
Eleni Paris is a licensed marriage and family therapist, working with individuals, couples, and families. She has over 20 years of professional experience including clinical work, workshop and seminar presentations, discussion and support groups, writing contributions, collaborative work with various health professionals, and wellness coaching. Eleni works from a strength-based, family systems approach specializing in Solution-Focused, Emotionally-Focused and Narrative Therapies. Her areas of specialty include relationship coaching techniques that enhance couples’ communication, strengthen family bonds between parents and children, and improve one’s approach to health and well-being. She is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and has been published in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy.