What's your experience with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)?
A note on Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT). It is recommended for just about everything, and we have good research that supports that. Some therapists only do CBT. CBT is the ongoing combination of different related therapies that work to identify triggers and create coping skills addressing one’s environment, thoughts, feelings, or actions. Working therapists began using it, academic researchers studied what we were using, so working therapists started using it more, so academic researchers studied more… rinse and repeat… then insurance companies wanted a treatment approach that was consistently effective, short-ish, and quantifiable which really amped up the research dollars and push to use CBT. Is CBT effective? Yes. It is the only game in town? No. Is it the most effective for your concerns, maybe.
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