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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

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Nik Wicks
Mental Health Counselor, Art Therapist
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Therapy is what you make it. You're only going to get from it what you put in. Can you make the change you want to see on your own? Yes! It all comes from you. Therapy is just a tool to help you get there.
Nik Wicks (they/them) is a dedicated counselor who works with adolescents, young/emerging adults, and established adults. They specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ adolescents, particularly those who are neurodiverse and/or experiencing depression or anxiety. Overall, Nik views therapy as a process of guided and assisted change—like a road trip, where the client is behind the wheel and they are in the passenger seat, helping to pick a destination and give directions while letting the client drive the car. This collaborative approach makes the journey as meaningful as the destination. Nik has a strong interest in holistic and trauma-informed care. Utilizing an eclectic approach, they draw from a social constructivist and person-centered/strengths-based perspective. They frequently incorporate tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), as well as Art Therapy. They have completed TF-CBT training. Deciding to start the therapeutic journey is half the battle- so let me congratulate you on making it this far! If my way of working resonates with you, please don't hesitate to reach out.
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Jennifer Garcia
Licensed Mental Health Therapist
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
If you’re hesitant to try therapy, I completely understand. Opening up about your struggles can feel intimidating, especially if you’ve been taught to handle things on your own or if past experiences have made trust difficult. But therapy isn’t about judgment or weakness—it’s about giving yourself the space to heal, grow, and understand yourself better.  What I wish I could tell you is that therapy is not about fixing you, because you are not broken. It’s about helping you uncover the strength and resilience that already exist within you. It’s a collaborative process where you set the pace, and it’s okay to start small. My advice? Give yourself permission to be curious. You don’t have to commit to long-term therapy right away—just try one session. See how it feels. Therapy is not about having all the answers; it’s about creating a space where you can explore, process, and learn without pressure. And if one therapist doesn’t feel like the right fit, don’t be afraid to try another. You deserve support, and you don’t have to do this alone.
As a licensed trauma therapist, I am dedicated to helping you navigate the challenges of trauma, anxiety, and emotional distress. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space where we can work together to understand and rewire trauma responses that may be holding you back. By integrating evidence-based techniques, I help clients build resilience, improve emotional regulation, and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Through our work, you can expect to gain deeper self-awareness, enhance your ability to manage stress, and improve your relationships and overall well-being. I am committed to supporting your journey toward healing, empowering you to shift unhelpful thought patterns, and maximizing your personal and professional growth. You don’t have to navigate this alone—together, we can create meaningful and lasting change in your life.
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Keri Enriquez
Holistic Alternative Psychology Practitioner
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
You don’t have to be in crisis to seek support. You don’t have to have everything figured out before you start. Therapy isn’t about being “broken” or needing to be “fixed”—it’s about giving yourself permission to be seen, heard, and supported in a safe space. It’s okay to feel nervous or unsure. Many people do. Therapy can feel vulnerable because it asks you to show up as you are—but that’s also where real healing begins. You don’t have to do it alone, and you don’t have to know what to say. A good therapist will meet you where you are, without judgment or pressure. It’s not about changing who you are—it’s about understanding yourself more deeply, finding healthier ways to cope, and creating space for growth. Therapy is an act of courage, self-respect, and care. You deserve that.
I’m Keri, a holistic practitioner dedicated to supporting your journey toward balance, wellness, and a deeper connection with yourself. Whether you're navigating stress, chronic discomfort, emotional blocks, or simply seeking a more grounded and aligned life, I’m here to help you heal from the inside out. My approach combines mind, body, and spirit—offering personalized care that honors your unique story. Through [modalities you offer—e.g., Reiki, herbal medicine, intuitive guidance, bodywork], I hold a space where transformation can gently unfold. If you're ready to feel more empowered, centered, and vibrant, I invite you to explore how we can work together. Your healing begins here.
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Irina Mindlis
Clinical Psychologist
Online Therapy
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in New York and New Jersey with a special interest in adjusting to medical illness and aging. A clinical health psychologist by training, I received my Ph.D. from the Graduate Center of the City University of New York after completing a pre-doctoral Clinical Psychology Internship at Mount Sinai Services/Elmhurst (2023). I also hold a Licentiate in Psychology from the Universidad de Palermo in Buenos Aires, Argentina (2013). I have specific expertise in helping adults adjust to chronic illness, including heart failure and other cardiovascular conditions, cancer and cancer survivorship, palliative and end-of-life care, diabetes, asthma, and GI/gastrointestinal disease, through my pre-doctoral externships and internship at Northwell Health/Long Island Jewish in Manhasset, Queens Hospital, and Elmhurst Hospital. My research has focused on aging adults’ adjustment to life with multiple chronic illnesses, including improving quality of life, reducing depressive symptoms, illness self-management, and patient-provider communication. In addition to my role as a therapist, I am also a Postdoctoral Associate in Behavioral Geriatrics in the Division of Geriatrics and Palliative Medicine at Weill Cornell Medicine, where I focus on understanding the relationship between living with multiple chronic conditions and depression, as well as improving care for this population. I am a member of the Gerontological Society of America and the Society for Behavioral Medicine, and an editorial board member for the Annals of Behavioral Medicine.
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