Why did you become a therapist, and what motivates you to continue?
I was encouraged as a child, to be the peacekeeper when there were problems, between my friends. Because of that, my friends would come to me to confide in, because I wouldn't disclose their problems or secrets to our friends. I would listen, without judgment and give them emotional support. As an undergraduate in College, I knew that I liked working with people, but I didn't know at what degree. It wasn't until I was working at a group home for boys, that I realized that I lacked tools as a counselor. I wanted to be more effecient and make a difference, as a residential counselor. So I got my Master's Degree in Counseling Education, and I was able to apply what I learned in my program, to my many jobs in the counseling field. Having a license, motivated me to start my own private practice, after years in a group practice. I really love the work I do, which motivates me to be proactive, collabrative, and fully present in my clinical work with clients.
Welcome! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I provide Telehealth services, throughout the state of California. I enjoy working with people who are emotional caretakers, in their intimate relationships, with their family members and friendships. They take on too many responsibilities, with not knowing how to say no to others. They are doing ALL*THE*THINGS, to please everyone, they self sacrific their own needs, and they themselves are emotionally and physically exhausted daily. They want to find a work-life balance, but struggle hard to imagine how to even begin to do this. I also help those who are in narcissistic abusive relationships, and want to end their toxic relationship. This is where I come in, to help clients find their voice, learn how to identify their feelings, needs and wants, and to communicate it, in their relationships. I work with clients on learning how to build boundaries, to prevent returning to old behaviors and patterns, that have kept them stuck, tired, anxious and not living the life they dream of. I am a big advocate for self care; emotional, physical and spiritual. I love helping clients develop their own self care plan, so they can care for others, while prioritizing and caring for themselves.