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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

Shala HillS

Shala Hill

Mental health counselor
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
There are many reasons people may be hesitant, and they are all valid. It may be a matter of money, time, bad experiences in the past, uncertainty that therapy will work, or simply not feeling that you have the energy to do the work right now.  I believe that you’ll know when it’s time to make a change, and a therapist can really help with that process. A good therapist can bring an unbiased opinion, compassionate ear, an in-depth knowledge of the human mind and relationships, and a long list of tools and skills that can help you along the way.  Therapy also doesn’t have to be scary. Your therapist should listen to any concerns or hesitation you may have about a topic or approach, and should not pressure you to talk about things that you are not ready to share. A good therapist will also ask for feedback: “How did you feel about last session?” “Was that technique helpful?” “What would you like to work on next?”    With that in mind, you’ll want to find a therapist that you feel comfortable with, and they should never disrespect you or disregard your experience. That’s a big “red flag” in therapy.   You can find a list of other things to look out for here: https://www.sondermind.com/resources/what-a-therapist-should-not-do I believe it’s important to educate yourself on what a therapist shouldn’t and shouldn’t do, know your rights as a client, and remember that you get to decide what’s working and what’s not working for you. Finally, there are many forms of therapy out there, including art therapy, movement-based therapy, solution-focused, and strength-based. With a bit of time and effort, you can find the approach that works for you.  
I’m a licensed mental health counselor in Southeastern Ohio. I take a holistic view of mental health that incorporates spirituality, relationships, mindfulness, and mind-body connection. 
Tolulope OnanugaT

Tolulope Onanuga

PMHNP-BC
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Seeking therapy is a courageous step toward healing and growth. It’s a safe space where you can explore your concerns without judgment. I approach care with understanding and empathy, focusing on creating a supportive environment where you feel heard, valued, and capable of making meaningful progress.
I'm Tolulope Onanuga, a dedicated Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with over a decade of experience in both psychiatric and medical/surgical nursing. I focus on understanding and addressing the unique needs of each patient, ensuring a compassionate and supportive environment. My expertise includes working with patients who have mental health challenges, such as those dealing with chemical dependency, crisis situations, or severe psychiatric conditions like schizophrenia and PTSD. I work closely with a collaborative healthcare team to create and update personalized treatment plans that promote holistic care. Education is a big part of my approach; I help patients and their families understand medications and care routines. My mission is to foster a healing atmosphere where patients feel safe and empowered on their journey to better health. Treatment philosophy: As a dedicated psychiatric nurse practitioner, my treatment philosophy centers around compassionate, patient-focused care. I believe in fostering genuine relationships with my patients, actively listening to their concerns and tailoring my approach to their unique needs. I prioritize transparency, helping patients understand their treatment options and medications. Whether it's through crisis intervention or ongoing therapy, my goal is to empower patients on their recovery journeys. Above all, I adhere to a trauma-informed, recovery-oriented mindset, creating a safe space for healing and growth. Together, we can achieve meaningful progress toward better mental health.
Thrishanna ClarkT

Thrishanna Clark

I’m a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with 15 years of healthcare experience
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
If someone is hesitant to try therapy, I want to reassure them that their feelings are completely normal. Taking the first step towards seeking help can be intimidating, but it is a brave act of self-care. Therapy is a safe place where you can express yourself freely without being judged. It's not about being "broken" or "weak"; it's about developing insight, coping skills, and support to help you navigate life's challenges. Your mental health is important, and seeking therapy is a positive step toward recovery and growth. You deserve to live a happier, more fulfilled, and empowered life. Remember that you are not alone, and there are people who genuinely want to help you succeed.
My goal is to help YOU become the BEST version of yourself that you can be. I prioritize my client's concerns and needs throughout their journey. This is a no judgement, stigma free zone. I aim to provide safe, effective, trustworthy client centered care. Everyone is unique. So, I value providing unique experiences to each individual. I welcome cultural diversity and individuals of different backgrounds. My practice is 100% telehealth where clients have the flexibility to be seen or treated in the comfort of their home, office, etc. I provide medication management services to clients in need of outpatient mental health services. I specialize in adult and adolescence mental health. I treat depression, ADHD, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, and mood disorders. I have personally seen individuals close to me struggle with depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses. I can witness that the appropriate mental health treatment can bring back happiness, stability and hope. You are not alone. I am here to help. Please reach out. Accepting new clients. Insurance or self-pay clients are welcome
Rose ChigboR

Rose Chigbo

PMHNP-BC, APRN
Online & In-Person
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
Mental health comes in different forms. As a mental health provider, understanding your need is my priority and goal. A client seeks understanding, empathy, and a safe space to express emotions. My responsibility is to provide personalized coping strategies and treatment that will manage your symptoms effectively, therapeutic support, and a non-judgmental environment, help you build resilience, improve self-esteem, and foster overall well-being. Ultimately, helping you develop a sense of control and sustainable mental health within a balanced life.
Welcome to my profile! I'm Rose Ifeyinwa Chigbo, a dedicated and empathetic mental health nurse practitioner based in Midlothian, VA. With a deep-seated passion for supporting those facing mental health challenges, I bring a wealth of knowledge and clinical expertise to foster the well-being of my patients. My journey in healthcare has been fueled by a commitment to understanding and treating various mental health conditions with kindness and cultural sensitivity. From mood disorders to anxiety and PTSD, I've honed my skills in psychiatric assessment, medication management, and creating personalized treatment plans that resonate with each individual's unique needs. Collaboration is at the heart of my practice. I work closely with other healthcare professionals to ensure a holistic approach to mental wellness, always keeping the patient's best interest in focus. Whether through face-to-face consultations or telepsychiatry services, I strive to deliver supportive care that empowers patients and their families to navigate mental health confidently. My academic background from Herzing University and Grand Canyon University has equipped me with the latest evidence-based techniques to provide top-tier care. As a lifelong learner, I continue to expand my expertise and stay abreast of advancements in mental health treatments. I'm proud to be part of professional organizations like the Academy of Medical-Surgical Nurse and the North Dakota Nurse Practitioners Association, which keep me connected with peers and the broader medical community. Your mental health journey deserves compassionate guidance. Let's work together towards achieving balance and wellness in your life.
Andrea FreemanA

Andrea Freeman

LCSW
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
First of all, I would tell them that that I understand. Therapy can be an intimidating notion, especially if you've never tried it before or had negative experiences in the past. It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to open yourself up to someone you barely know. I would encourage them to do some research if you're not already familiar with different therapy modalities or all the various professional credentials in the field. GoodTherapy.org offers some really succint definitions on their site that can offer some inital insight. As therapists, we tend to lean heavily on acronyms and you're not alone if you don't know what they all mean. As you research, pay attention to what resonates with you. Are you looking for someone to help you challenge negative thoughts? Are you looking for someone to help you express yourself creatively? Do you want someone who will offer you an open space to fill how you choose, or would you rather be led through a step-by-step process? All these questions will help guide you to a practitioner who is most likely to be a good fit for you. After all, it is a good fit with your therapist, and willingness to show up and put in the work, that will ultimately determine whether you meet your goals in therapy. Ask questions, take advantage of those consultation calls, and ultimately trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right to you with a particular therapist or approach, it's okay to put on the breaks and continue your search. You are the only one who can truly know what is right for you.
I am a California virtual therapist specializing in working with individuals ages 10+. My passion is for providing a safe and compassionate space for my clients to unpack their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.