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For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?

Sarah ThiessenS

Sarah Thiessen

Mental Health Therapist
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
No one has to face pain alone! Therapy is no longer a week to week hour of just talking continually about painful moments. We have evidence based and researched techniques that work to help us shed the past and move to healthy behaviors and choices and new beginnings! We can heal from pain that once paralyzed us. 
Sometimes life's struggles and transitions have led to pain and feelings of being paralyzed and lost. You are not alone even though day after day it might feel like a daily battle. Counseling can be the answer to finding hope and a new beginning to finding answers, self-awareness, and self-compassion for making new choices and having a new outlook. Sarah helps you find connections between your thoughts, feelings and actions to be emotionally healthy and face past hurts that are holding you back. Thoughts aren't facts and you can learn to change that inner voice that criticizes you and shed faulty beliefs that lead you down the wrong path time and again. Sarah is certified in EMDR, a highly researched and supported therapy for trauma and PTSD. EMDR enables people to heal from symptoms and emotional pain and is also used to address multiple mental health issues. Using techniques that align with neuroscience, this therapy uses the body’s ability to heal, often producing relief from many symptoms quickly. For children, Sarah integrates play techniques with EMDR because children heal through play and imagination. The effectiveness of EMDR results in clients who feel empowered rather than paralyzed by life experiences that in the past caused them great pain. EMDR does not require extensive homework or hours of talking about the pain to find relief. Simply said, talk therapy helps clients handle emotional pain, but EMDR removes the emotional pain! This is why EMDR is almost always Sarah's go to choice for most of her clients regardless of therapy issue.
Emma PetersE

Emma Peters

LCPC
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
If you're even considering whether therapy might be a good option for you, take the plunge! It's totally normal to feel anxious or nervous about trying something new, and therapy is no different. There's a lot of vulnerability that comes with entering therapy. I urge you to consider... what's the worst that could happen? You feel the same as you do now? You know what that feels like, and it sounds like you're ready to experience something different. There's no threshold for the worthiness of therapy. 
Welcome! You've taken a great step by exploring new ways to care for yourself through therapy. Many situations and life circumstances bring people to this space, and I look forward to talking with you more about your story. If you're even wondering if therapy might be right for you, then the answer is yes! Over the years, I've developed a passion for working with young adults and supporting the unique challenges they face today. I've found that many young (and even not-so-young!) adults are dealing with major life transitions, and struggle to navigate those new changes at times. This is where therapy steps in! As a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois, I offer teletherapy services that allow you to experience therapy from the comfort of your home. When working with me, you can expect to gain new coping skills, tools for challenging and disrupting negative thoughts, new insights, and increased awareness of strategies for self-care and self-love. This process can be difficult at times, but I believe growth and change do not exist without some discomfort. You have taken the steps to begin (or maybe continue) your mental health journey and I look forward to the opportunity to support and empower you along the way! I hope to talk with you soon.  
Juliet Kinkade-Black, LMFTJ

Juliet Kinkade-Black, LMFT

Senior Clinician
Online Therapy
For people that are hesitant to try therapy, what do you wish you could tell them?
I get it--therapy can be intimidating! Will I like my therapist? Will my therapist like me? What will we talk about? One thing I'd like you to know is that every therapist is different, and it may take a few tries to find the one you jive really well with. I personally really value a therapist who doesn't take the "expert" role, and instead who wants to brainstorm together. If this sounds like what you might be looking for, I'd love to meet with you. I offer a free consultation to get us started.
Are you finally at a place in your life where you're no longer in survival mode? You’ve hit six figures? You’re checking off the bucket list items? Your friends and family think you’re doing so well… but there's still something missing? I get it. I help high-achieving, creative women like you face the ghosts of your past that are preventing you from reaching your goals. Past toxic relationships, traumatic experiences, and "crazy" emotions can keep us stuck in self sabotaging patterns, and prevent us from making friends with our feelings. You might experience low levels of chronic depression and anxiety. How do I know? I was there! I was a Director at a large agency at the top of my field, married, house, dog, had it all. Yet, I still felt like something was missing. Thanks to my clinical training I was able to understand past trauma (that I wasn’t addressing) was the culprit. Now I help high-achieving women fill that last missing piece in their lives. I'm a mixed race BIPOC, queer woman, and therapist. If you want a therapist who is a collaborative partner that can share resources, ideas, and motivate you, as well as offer science backed tools to heal trauma, I’d be honored if you'd consider working with me.